Look at the world through a pony's eyes. Understand how they think. Why they act the way they do. What is important to them?
If a pony frightens you it is usually because he is frightened. Help them think differently about what it is they are afraid of.
Have you every dreamed of the perfect friendship with a pony?
To build a friendship with your pony you must understand him and communicate clearly with him. To communicate with your pony you must use a language that he understands. By understanding how he learns and what is important to him you can communicate with him, to form a friendship so that he will become a willing and happy partner. When you feel safe with him and he feels safe with you and you can achieve anything together.